Dear Pastor,

I have just entered into a relationship with a man. His penis is very large. It is nine inches long. When I tried to have sex with him, I told him that I couldn't manage it. I tried, but I told him I can't do it again. I did not enjoy having sex with him. Although he tried to take his time, it was very painful. I ran around the room for more than an hour trying to get away from this man.

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Dear ...,

This man was too hot to handle and he wouldn't take no for an answer. That is the type of fire that will not quench. You would be a fool to continue to try to have sex with this man. If he won't leave you alone, you might have to take out an injunction against him. Remember now, if you take money from him, he is going to demand sex from you because he is going to believe that you are willing to try again.

Pastor